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The
number of people I can correspond with at one time?
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You
can correspond with as many people as you like. Our suggestion
is that you send from three to five introductory letters
to start with. Then continuing to correspond with one
to three people. The people may not think your intentions
are serious if you correspond with too many people. |
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| A
kind word of advice |
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PLEASE
DO NOT WRITE OR DISCUSS POSSIBLE MISTAKES ON YOUR ACCOUNT
WITH OTHERS. Your account status is never discussed
with others. |
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| Suggested
first letter |
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Just
as the people have shared their details (age, height,
weight, hobbies, employment and marital status) it would
be honorable for you to do the same. If possible you should
include a current picture of yourself. Also share with
them why you think you are compatible with them. |
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| Sample
Letter |
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Hello
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Greetings from America, I was browsing through the Life
Time Introductions
and found your profile and picture. Your introduction
about yourself made me smile, and I found that I was
wanting to find out more about you.
I have read a little of you, now let me share some of
myself. Starting at the beginning this way I will not
forget anything. I am the eldest of four children, I
was born in the small country town. My parents settled
there as they were farmers. Being the eldest has many
responsibilities and also many adventurous times, I
have two brothers and one sister. We all get on really
well and have made our own lives. We still support and
love each other dearly.
I finished school (year 12) and have gone on to become
an accountant.
In my spare time I love to sleep in late, enjoy reading,
walking, going to the cinema and raveling. I like to
experience all kinds of cuisine and enjoy the entertainment
of friends in having them around for dinner.
I believe I am a person that is both sincere and honest.
I am looking for the same qualities. I believe these
qualities make us trustworthy and worthy of trust through
friendship and romance.
In writing to you I hope to make a life long friend,
someone to build a future with. Finding a lady that
will be both my soul mate and life long partner.
I am interested in finding out more about you, about
your goals, your dreams and your life. I am looking
forward to your letter and questions. I will answer
your questions openly and honestly.
I hope to hear from you soon..
Your new friend
<your name>
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| Reasons
why you may have not had a response |
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Problem:
The person got your letter but did not want to reply. |
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Solution:
Rewrite to the person and explain why you believe
you are the right person for them. Even if you do
not fit into the requirements (height, age, race,
etc.). Also include your photograph, if you did
not include one in your introductory letter. If
this is not successful then please choose another
person to write to. |
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Problem:
The person has left our agency |
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Solution:
Choose another person to correspond with |
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Problem:
Other reasons |
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Solution:
Please contact us with your problem |
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| Ending
correspondence with a person |
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Respect
demands that if you decide not to correspond with a person
any further that you should inform them and wish them
luck for the future. Such a letter allows them to focus
their attention on others who are serious about continued
correspondence with them. |
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| Sample
Letter |
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Dear
<person's name>
Even though I have enjoyed getting to know you via our
correspondence. Sadly, I do not believe that we are
destined for each other. I know that you are a very
sincere lady looking for your life long partner.
I want to wish you every success in your future. Thank
you for corresponding with me
Your Friend
<your name>
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